to see each individual who had a mother they love, a father they love and care about, their own family; those close to them who have died; their own mortality; their own limited nature of being, their essence.
to realize they will have a mother who will die, a father who will die; to see the sadness in them, the existential catastrophe in them.
and ultimately; to see them as you see yourself. to see yourself in them. [that japanese term for the sensation of realizations that everyone's life is as complex as your own?)
is to alleviate and eradicate hatred, envy, annoyance,
and clears up your own mind, of guilt, shame.
to forgive others and yourself. compasion for yourself and others.