to tolerate someone annoying you because the dont have free will is so cheapening and an insult to that person. you shoul congratulate people when they ccomplsih things. you should criticize someone for when they do something bad.
but aha this is a misframing of dterminsim - because i just said "should" etc. the underlying frameworks of logic are dictating this.
but there is an element of "tolerating" someone when you say "oh its okay they just dont have free will", maybe. its a matter of reframing the issue in my mind.